I think age is an issue here. As we get older we become more of who we really are which makes it harder to adjust to chipping off pieces of ourselves to satisfy someone else.

This has been my experience. I should add, I don’t know how old you are, so no offense intended. :)

Honorary Schizophrenic. Recent refugee. Displaced person. Old white male. Confidant of cassowaries.

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